I would also consider that frames stretch over time.. Race teams hand pick frames that are all close to the same and swap them out at intervals. Some practice on the fresh chassis and race on them once they have a few hours and settle into the sweet spot. Guys putting hundreds of hours on a chassis are ultimately stretching them out and changing the geometry. A few mm can change the handling and feel for sure. The bikes become more chopper like the longer they are run and this completely changes how the forks work as they will want to bind more the more raked out they become.. You can replace every bushing, bearing, seal, fluid on the bike and it will never be just like new because of this. You average rider is not using anywhere near the potential of the bike though so its usually a moot point.
To get it as good as you could I would do all the suspension bushings and bearings to start, servicing suspension regularly makes a huge difference. Learn to do it yourself and save a ton of money.. When racing I rebuilt my forks and shock every 20 hours or earlier if they started leaking. One mud race is all it takes to get dirt under your seals.
Setting front forks correct on the axle and torquing all front end components is huge for feel too.
Basically for feel, if it moves or pivots it needs attention regularly.